Controlling the behaviour of others

A belief that the behavior of others must be controlled—so that your observation of that good behavior will make you feel good—leaves you feeling vulnerable to their behavior.

We would like to help you to understand that neither the good feeling you find when you observe wanted behavior, nor the bad feeling you find when you observe unwanted behavior, is actually the reason that you feel good or bad. The way you feel is only ever about your alignment, or misalignment, with the Source within you. It is only your relationship with the Source within you (with your own Inner Being) that is the reason for the emotions that you feel.

While it is nice to find things in your physical environment that enhance your good-feeling alignment with your Inner Being, your understanding of why you feel good will make it possible for you to feel good regardless of the behavior of others.

Understanding that the way you feel is really about your Vibrational relationship with your Inner Being—with the Source within you, with the expanded version of you who resides inside your Vortex—gives you complete empowerment and absolute freedom.

--- Abraham

Excerpted from the Abraham Hicks Law of Attraction Getting into the Vortex Guided Meditation CD and User Guide # 321

Thoughts are creating

My Thoughts Join a Powerful Swirling Vortex of Attraction... In the same way that the Law of Attraction is responding to the thoughts, words, and actions that you are offering here in your physical reality, the Law of Attraction is always responding powerfully to your Vibrational Reality. When the Law of Attraction, the Universal manager of all Vibrations, responds to the clarity of Vibration offered by your expanding Inner Being, the result is a powerful swirling Vortex of attraction.

--- Abraham

Excerpted from the Abraham Hicks book, The Vortex, Where the Law of Attraction Assembles All Cooperative Relationships # 314

Daily Abraham Hicks Quote-Get in the Vortex

If you make your relationship with your Inner Being your top priority, and you deliberately choose thoughts that allow your alignment, you will consistently offer the greatest advantage to the others with whom you interact. Only when you are aligned with your Source do you have anything to offer another.
If your behavior is influenced by your desire to keep another person happy, you will lose your Connection to your Source. And it is not possible for you to be happy unless you are in alignment with your Source. Without that alignment, you have nothing to offer another.

Our daily meditation process will help you to consistently release resistance and to come into alignment with the power and clarity and love that is really who-you-are—and then anyone who you hold as your object of attention will benefit.

Rather than attempting the impossible task of trying to behave in ways that please others, show them the ease of finding your consistent alignment. You will always find happiness inside your Vortex. And the happiness that they are seeking is inside their Vortex.
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the Getting into the Vortex Guided Meditation CD and User Guide # 254

Daily Abraham Hicks Quote-Take your Inner Being with you...

Take your Inner Being everywhere you go. If you take your Inner Being to the party, it's going to be a good party! If you take your Inner Being, the food that you eat will be received perfectly by the cells of your body. Every word that comes out of your mouth will be beneficial to everyone who hears them with their ears—or with their vibration. Don't go anywhere without your Inner Being. That's what "Allowing" is. Always having your Inner Being present. And then, anything else that happens is always orchestrated perfectly by Law of Attraction.
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in El Paso, TX on Saturday, February 17th, 2001 # 252

What your Inner Being does not join you on the unwanted.

"Your inner being does not give attention to things that make your inner being uncomfortable. That´s were most of you go wrong, when you see something you don´t like – you look at it and complain. But that draws the unwanted to you! Attention to brings more of! Withdraw your attention.

Forgiveness is releasing of the attention from the subject and going back into the vortex. Forgiveness is finding a way to focus that aligns you with who you are. It is not forgiving the perpertrator of the crime that you are condemming, it is forgiving the vibration that disallows you from the vortex. Your forgiveness is for yourself, not for the others.
Anytime you find a reason to not love – you step away from the source within you who will not do that. Ester said: Do you mean you approve of that? And we said: We mean we do not give our attention to things that take us out of the vortex. And when you no longer give attention to things out of the vortex you will no longer be outside the vortex.”